Monday, November 14, 2011
Relations of a Relationship
It seems like I get this question at least once a day. Why aren't you in a relationship or why are you single...still?" Then with the added you're attractive, and have a nice body and funny and blah blah blah. Thank you, but right now I do not seek a relationship.
Let me give you a back story. I have had five serious relationships and each one taught me something. I am grateful that I still communicate with each of them so there were never any hard feelings in the break ups. We broke up over what I see now as silly stuff... minus the one that cheated. One passed in car accident last year and we hadn't spoken in about a year or so. Therefore I have made it mandatory to keep up with the people who in many ways are apart of me as I am of them. As you can see, I take the matter seriously and never with a light heart or mind. Sure guys hit on me and I have even had one tried to get serious after the first date. Really? Nothing is more unattractive than someone who comes off as "thirsty." We can agree for arguments sake that I may be a good catch but don't you think I seek the same? My last dating experience taught me that nothing should be rushed. I Love him to death but I was simply not ready to settle down. Is that a crime? In the gay world that's pretty much like saying I want to continue to be a whore. But how about I want to continue to develop my myself internally. Everyone meets at different levels. If is it meant to be I don't believe it has to be forces or rushed, it naturally happens.