Atlanta, 2004, I was reminded of this story through a friend that knows the same dude. I think I met dude, we'll call him tony, through blackplanet. He was a freshman at Clark Atlanta and we decided to meet on the strip aka promenade. We had a good discussion and found out we had a lot on common, including being student govt President in HS. Anyway we called it a night. I told my bestfriend at Clark also about the incident and come to find out he had a crush on dude as well, lol. Although they never messed around to my knowledge Tony and I had a open friendship for about a month. We went on a "Date" to the Annual Morehouse-Spelman Christmas Concert. after that we actually hung out, in my bestfriends room lol. That was quite the experience. Since we all knew each other at this point, Tony gave me a lap dance while I was sitting on the bed as my friend on he pc laughed and tried not to look. He swore he didnt have a crush on dude but I still felt uncomfortable about the situation. So a few weeks later Tony comes to the student center one rainy night and he told me that he was trying to "turn straight" at the same time, maybe through foolishness or love struck, I decided to do the same. We clearly both failed lol within a week. However we didn't talk much after that and the most we ever shared was a kiss, but I believe he was the reason I decided to study the Bible and homosexuality. Tony is doing very well now as his facebook shows but we haven't spoken in 5 years.