Tuesday, May 5, 2009

U Need Space, REALLY?


So I think a lot of us have been in this relationship spot before...
-Person 1"I need space"
Person 2 "Space for what I thought we were doing good"
Person 1 "I just think we need time apart"
Person 2 "Umm I dont get it, but if you think so"

This sounds like a selfish decision. One made by one person and not even considering what their partner thinks or the implications a decision like that has. I have been there before because I believe there is a thing called "smothering" somebody however you gotta think why one needs this "space." Space to find another dude/girl? Space or have a reason to cheat without cheating? There is always more to the issue than meets the eye.
Communication is important in relationships. I know I am not perfect at communicating my feelings but when its something serious it is vital that a couple shares feelings, whether good or bad. So this space thing I dont fully understand. It creates a void and in all cases I have heard of space was virtually the end of that relationship. So talk about it and work it out, maybe instead of space u need more honest open communication.

5 comments:

thegayte-keeper said...

I remember getting the I need space talk a few years ago...funny thing how he came back saying that he was wrong, but was too late...I was enjoying my space...

thegayte-keeper said...

just a question...is there another way to post comment to your blog? this template makes it a bit difficult...

Keith Jones said...

I have noticed.. I have been too lazy to do an entire new layout but it seems inevitable lol

thegayte-keeper said...

yeah it does...

Keith Jones said...

I hope this is better!